Thursday, May 25, 2006

The Difference Between Girls and Women.--How I Fit in

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.  I am a grown woman.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. Grown woman

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't. Still a girl here.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down. Definitely a woman here.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth. Becoming a grown woman.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys. I'll just say that I am a teenager here.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. Still a girl here.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a little bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -- and goes to hang with her own friends! Totally a grown woman.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. Grown woman.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. Definite woman.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that it was just one man. Grown woman.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back-- and move on, without bitterness. Becoming a grown woman

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women.

1 comment:

happinessdreams said...

I thought that was very interesting because in some way or another we are grown woman and girls. At our age we are definetely grown woman and capable of making our own decision but in many ways we are still 16 year old girls.
elisa