Saturday, December 26, 2009

Holiday Cheer

Hello My Little Peppermint Patties,

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas !

I know I've been bad at making my rounds on blogland, but I will catch up soon.

I have been very blessed to be able to spend it with my grandparents again. I also got to visit with my dad and my cousins. I haven't done much but sit around and talk, but that's all I could ask for with them. I've also been eating a lot of chocolate and ice cream. I am currently snacking on Safeway's Peppermint ice cream, the limited edition. It's good. And it's half the fat so I will get another helping after I am done with this one.

I was also able to get a lot of pictures of the sunset at the headlands. My folks live by the ocean so I got some amazing pictures of the sunset my first night here. I couldn't stay for the whole sunset, but I was around long enough to take in all the colors and enjoy it.  And that's a good thing because it's raining today. Last time I was here on Thanksgiving, I got to see an amazing sunset without bringing my camera. At least this time, I got it all on camera. And this sunset was better than the one on Thanksgiving.

I will be back in town tomorrow and will then have to go back to reality.

Other than that, nothing much else to report........... aw who the hell am I kidding, I got a lot of stuff to report...embarrassing moments, catchy situations, but I am not going to blog about all that. At least not on here, probably on my private blog though.

I will say that on Wed, I got a text out of nowhere from the man who broke my heart (I blogged about him here before) a few years ago. He wanted to get together for drinks, and I kept telling him to eff off for a while. But then I gave in, and we had drinks. I am glad we did because it was closure for me. I got to ask him why he treated me the way he did, and got honest answers. It's true that you won't always get answers, but I will take them if I can get them. And they were the answers I needed to hear.

I also realized that I am no longer attracted to him. Not only that, but I feel sorry for the mentality that he is stuck in, which is how I got hurt. Not only that, but I can see that I have grown up a little, and moved on from it. This was someone I used to be crazy about, but now when we were having drinks I was counting down to going home.

Of course I don't feel this way about most of the guys I've dated in the past. I just prefer to pretend that they do not exist.

Anyway loves, time for another helping of ice cream !

Peppermint kisses !

4 comments:

Just telling it like it is said...

Merry Christmas!! and a happy new Year!!

Liam said...

I couldn't pretend that people didn't exist. Good or bad my past defines my present.

Shelly Rayedeane said...

See you when you return chica!

Danielle said...

It is like my dad always says. Rejection is Gods protection.
You were obviously better off.
Glad you had a good Christmas!