Sunday, August 21, 2005

I am so Naive

Hello there,

Today is just one of those days where I wish I could just call up one of my girlfriends and talk. Someone in my position or one of my guy friends who can just lay it to me straight.

I went out on a date last night. I also went out with this guy last weekend at the concert. Last weekend I had such a blast and was thinking about it all week. Yesterday just sucked. This guy did a 180. Last weekend he was the perfect gentleman and just loaded me up with compliments. Yesterday he was grouchy and tired and I don't even think I got one good compliment. I don't even think he really wanted to be there, despite him calling me up and inviting me. In fact, he was giving me subtle clues to leave, so that I would leave and he wouldn't look like such a jerk.

I am happy that I found out soon. Because although I am disapointed, I am not just gonna let myself get treated this way. So after I got home I erased his number. I would rather spend my free time by myself.

I am not happy that almost every guy I meet ends up like this. That leads me to believe that I am doing something wrong. And I just want to know what it is so I stop wasting so much time.

Anyways, I usually don't make entries like this, but today I am. I don't care how dumb it makes me look that I am just putting this out there.

 

4 comments:

resettozero said...

1. (the obvious) Some guys are in it for the nookie. If you're not showing likely signs of giving it, they don't see the point in buying you expensive meals.

2. Some guys want some indication that their interest is returned. They complement you, but do you show any interest in them?

kdwsunshine said...

Poor thing, he obviously isn't in your best interests. I hope that someone comes along and knocks you off your feet!
hugs,
Kathi

readmereadyou said...

I really believe you should be yourself and not try to act like another person to get someone to like you. However, I hear that book "He's just not that into you" is a good one to learn about men's behavior and there's another that I can't remember the title of that basically makes you understand that men still like the chase. If you're too available or they feel too secure right away, they are on to the next woman who is a challenge.
Don't feel bad......You're so young. Take your time, he'll come along.....The one that will love you for you unconditionally.
Angela

happinessdreams said...

First things first. You know that if you need to talk, you could always find me. We all have those days so I know how you feel.
I'm sorry that guy turned out to be such a jerk. I guess its just a matter of taking it as an experience and moving on to the next person. I know it hurts, trust me...I've been there before.
You don't deserve that kind of treatment from any guy, so its just a matter of moving on.
Guys could be sooooooo cruel and silly.
This entry does not make you sound dumb, we all go through this.
The right one for you will come...so don't worry. We won't be single girls forever.
Love ya.
Eli