Monday, November 21, 2005

A Man's Honesty

I gotta wonder why men tell me the stuff they do sometimes. I was out on a date on Saturday and I was having a wonderful time smoking hookahs and dancing to Lebanese music that was off the hook. My date next to me decides to ask me how long it was since I had a boyfriend. I just shrugged my shoulders and said it has been a while. Then he turns to me and just flat out tells me :" I have only had one girlfriend. That's because I always break it off before things get serious." He was totally serious in his tone of voice. So I just smiled, patted his shoulder and said. "Wow. Thanks for letting me know."

WTF? I was out having fun on date #1. I was just starting to make conversation with him and get to know him better. I wasn't even thinking about the next date with him. There was nothing serious about they way I was acting. I didn't ask about his family or if he wanted kids. I was kinda busy inhaling my apple flavored smoke.

 But I gotta give the guy credit. At least he's honest. In a way, I sometimes wish other men would say shit like this so I get a fair warning. My life would be a hell of a lot easier. 

Now I know that if I continue to see him and have go out and have fun with him he will evaporate into thin air. What a guy.

4 comments:

jcrazytrain said...

POOR guy must be a mamas boy :o) What is les music??? Give me titles LOL D

mystiktb said...

Man that is crazy. He sure knows how to ruin a night in one sentence.

happinessdreams said...

Its cool that he was honest. But talk about ruining a first date. I don't get guys anymore, I give up.
Elisa

kdwsunshine said...

Wow, that was blunt, but I guess it is better that you know that so that feelings don't get hurt later.
hugs,
Kathi